Is it possible to genuinely hate your stomach?

I've noticed that I'm using A LOT OF CAPITAL LETTERS these days.
Which reminds me of one of my aunts who, for years, capitalized every letter of every word of every Facebook post she wrote. No punctuation. It was like she was constantly screaming run-on sentences about the newest recipe for nacho dip and cruise contests. It was so hilarious....but even funnier was the day we were teasing her about it and she admitted she did it because the caps lock was on and she didn't even know caps lock was a thing (another aunt had just filled her in....). Omg, we nearly peed our pants.

{Just to be clear: I didn't accidentally leave caps lock on. The capital letters are yelling at you.}

Today the topic is: IS IT POSSIBLE TO GENUINELY HATE YOUR STOMACH?

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The short answer: NO

The long answer:
You don't pop out of your mother's womb and think "ugh. belly rolls!".
THIS IS SOMETHING YOU LEARNED.

I work with many women who will say "but I just want to be thin for ME. It wouldn't matter if I were alone on a desert island....I'd want to look good in the bikini just for myself!!!"

NOT TRUE.
You want to look good in a bikini on a desert island because our culture has taught you that that is what looks good. That's what's attractive.

If you'd been born in a different culture or a different time you'd think differently.
Maybe you want to look fatter in that bikini.
More tummy rolls might = wealth and power and status.
You'd be all over those belly rolls.

No. No one genuinely hates their stomach.
Women hate their stomach in a culture that hates stomachs.